when lover met bover: need help

Tuesday, February 22, 2005

need help

Hey everyone. I need your advice. Som of my co-workers want to have a bridal shower for me before my wedding in BC. But here's the thing.. Would it be rude of me to invite aunts and family to come to the shower and not to the wedding? I don't want them to think that they are only invited because I want a gift. So what should I do? Skip it all together? Because If I had a bridal shower without them I would only have like 3 people come. I know no one in Manitoba. So what should I do? Oh and then there is the other other family.. the gottfrieds that will want to do soemthing too I'm sure.. so should I have 2 bridal showers? (I'm pretty sure everyone knows about the gottfireds.. my biological father's family) I dont feel comfy with them and my mom's family mingling together it would be a little weird.
Ok I need help!
Kirsten

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andrea said...: tough situation kirsten. hopefully you can invite them. would they come to your wedding if you invited them? maybe just tell them that its only immediate family.. you can invite the godfrieds or whoever.. and just be really honest. they love you and they'll understand. :); 6:44 PM
Anonymous said...: Hey there! I am speaking on my own here Kirsten. We love you no matter what you would like to do at your wedding. It's your wedding and not anyone else's. You do things the way you want and don't worry about anyone else. The Gottfried's will understand no matter what you do. If your not comfortable with the two families mingling together that's ok. No worries. I think that your happiness is what matters most. I am extremely happy to be a part of your extended family and life no matter what. You and Drew deserve every happiness that life will give you. Enjoy it to the end Baby!
Kelly; 7:33 PM

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